Guides
Free help with the words, the day and what comes after. Written by the small family business behind Cherished Book.
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How to write a memorial
Where to start, what to include, and examples for every relationship and faith.
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How to write a eulogy
A structure that works, and how to speak about someone you loved.
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How to write a pet memorial
For a dog, a cat, a horse or any animal who was family.
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Sympathy messages
What to say to a grieving family, for every faith and background.
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What to expect at a funeral
How services run in different traditions, so you know what to do.
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What to wear to a funeral
Respectful dress for each tradition.
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Sympathy gift etiquette
What would actually help, and what each tradition welcomes.
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Virtual memorial service ideas
Bringing people together when they can't all be there.
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Funeral livestreaming
How to stream a service, and the etiquette of watching one.
Funeral customs by faith
Condolence card messages
- What to Write in a Condolence Card for Your Boss
- What to Write in a Condolence Card for a Coworker
- What to Write in a Condolence Card for an Acquaintance
Funeral poems and readings
If you're struggling
Grief can be heavier than anyone expects. Support with grief lists free helplines and groups.